Eruptions in my deranged head

June 30, 2009

We are racists too

Filed under: Slaughterhouse — Sam @ 5:40 pm

Whether or not TOI carries RK Laxman’s daily You Said It, it’ll definitely talk about some Asian geting assaulted in the now infamous Australia. Articles go on to say how racism is a problem faced by Desis everywhere. I agree. But have you looked at what goes on in your house before checking out the shit in your neighbour’s place?

To begin with, ads after ads endorsing Fair n Lovely, Pond Fairness, Fairever, Emami Fair & Natural, etc for women. Shahrukh and John Abraham do their bit by being the face of Himani Fairness Cream and Garnier Fairness cream for men. Why? I mean why this obsessive need to look fair? Whats wrong if your skin produces “that” extra ounce of Melanin???? Aren’t we being racists here?

Next come the super annoying matrimonial ads. Need a “Fair”, good looking and well educated girl/boy blah blah blah.. Its amazing how qualifications take a back seat and FAIR is the first word! Amazing priorities. What if your would be groom/bride is a money sucking parasite, who has no respect for you or your parents? What if all that happns when they open their mouths is garbage flowing out? Ever thought about it? Why do you think girls or boys with darker complexions wont make good spouses? What are your reservations against them? And more  importantly WHY??? Aren’t we being racists here?

The place where I stay, has a lot of citizens from Nigeria. Believe me, I’ve seen this happening. I was standing in the queue in front of my bank ATM. There was this guy who was standing ahead of me. A woman and her son behind me. The kid in all its innocence asked his mom “Why is this Uncle so dark?”. The answer that came out from his mom was “Coz he’s a Black/Negro”. I just wanted to slap the woman real hard. Couldn’t you have thought of anything better to answer your child? Aren’t we being racists here?

For many people, wearing an attire in black on auspicious days or during festivals symbolises something sad/evil. Why? Aren’t these lame beliefs man-made?? Whats the big deal? You like it, you wear it. Isnt that plain simple? Aren’t we being racists here?

For all the filmy people (Bollywood) out there who might defend themselves saying “We aint like that, we treat everyone equally”, I just have one question. In the movie Fashion, Priyanka Chopra’s character, Meghna Mathur feels she has hit rock bottom, after finds herself having slept with an African American. Why? Would she have felt the same had she slept with a Gora firang? And women in the theatre shed copious tears with her in the next scene.  

Aren’t we being racists here? The answer is “Yes, we are racists too. Happily at that.”

June 21, 2009

Life – Explained in One Line (Forward)

Filed under: JLT — Sam @ 5:42 pm

Dadda sent this to me.

LIFE is: Leaving the house in the morning, dressed in clothes that you bought on credit card, for work, driving through the traffic in a car that you are still paying for, putting in fuel that you cannot afford, in order to get to the job that you hate but need so badly so that you can pay for your clothes, car, fuel and the house that you leave empty the whole day, in order to live in it.

June 12, 2009

The week that it was

Filed under: JLT — Sam @ 5:13 pm

These days I seem to be in the learning mode. Good for me considering, it keeps my head calm and my mind busy. Some pearls of wisdom that were thrown at me, which were THANKFULLY caught:

  • True friends are like one’s health. You wont realize the value of either until you lose it.
  • Trust is like money. You invest it in some, get decent returns. You waste some. And some, you get robbed off.

June 9, 2009

Some Updates

Filed under: JLT — Sam @ 5:12 pm

Update #1: Completed two days in the new office (just the address has changed and not the organization). The alien feeling has still not left me.

Update #2: The office bus leaves before 7.00 pm. So PC is shutdown by 6.30 coz the walk, from the building to the where the buses wait, is a good 15 mins walk. Gotta admit, its a D-I-V-I-N-E feeling when you click SHUT DOWN at 6.30 p.m.

Update #3: Some people, even when are not talking, sound amazingly sarcastic.

Update #4: There are some hard hitting sms’. Like this: If its painful for you to criticize your friends, you are safe in doing it. If you take the slightest pleasure in it, thats the time to hold your tongue.

Update #5: Then there are some LIFE TRANSFORMING sms’. Like this: Dil tod ke tumne pahunchaai mujhe thes. Dil tod ke tumne pahunchaai mujhe thes. Tan Theta = Perpendicular Upon Base.

I’m yet to recover from this sms. *Sob sob*

June 2, 2009

Chandralekha

Filed under: Music — Sam @ 4:34 pm

I’ve always maintained this: Mani Ratnam + A R Rahman = Music at its very best. You can just keep listening to them over and over again. Right from Roja to Guru, their pairing is a killer combo (though Bombay remains my most favourite). 

After a lonnnnggg time I listened to this brilliantly picturized, amazingly sung song called Chandralekha from the movie Thiruda Thiruda. Here’s the song. Listen to the way she says Konjam Mirigham.. Ah! Woowwww!!!

Where is Anupama (the singer) by the way???? Someone please ask her to come back.

June 1, 2009

I dont know…

Filed under: Slaughterhouse — Sam @ 2:06 pm

Anyone who bumps into this page, please do NOT read any further. Its just some crap.

  1. I dont know what to write.
  2. I dont know if I wanna write something in the first place.
  3. I dont know whats clouding my head now.
  4. I dont know why I keep thinking about my work 24/7.
  5. I dont know, if I hate something/someone, to keep thinking about that something/someone means getting obsessed with that something/someone.
  6. I dont know if point 5 above makes any damn sense!
  7. I dont know why some people dont answer calls or revert to texts.
  8. I dont know why its so bloody hot in Mumbai.
  9. I dont know why I get my insane mood swings.
  10. I dont know why I dont tolerate/like/trust 99/100 people I meet.

I dont know if I should continue writing or give it up for the sake of humanity. If you have ignored my warning and have ended up reading this post, you deserve to be tortured. Why the hell would you not listen to someone!

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