Happy Realization

Last few weeks have been quite turbulent. Some disappointments and the resultant introspection. But I’m happy that I’m over them and have learnt some important things. Ironically they the same things that we often get as forwards. I’m not writing about them coz I want to have some gyaan on my page. Some day I might gather enough courage to read my own posts and I want this to be one of them. So back to the Happy Realization:

1. No matter what the situation is, you just cant afford to lose patience. You lose it and you will regret later.
2. There’s no point or no use bickering about things. Just accept things the way they are and you’ll get some extra sleep.
3. You just cannot escape after having a lousy showdown with your boss. This can be done but be prepared to pay a very nasty price over a very long period of time.
4. Just because your efforts are not being recognized, doesnt mean you should stop putting your efforts. Keep at it, hardwork always pays.
5. It is not really important for us have opinions about everything. Its ok if we are dumb about certain things.
6. If you dont get something that you feel you deserved, may be you didn’t deserve it at all. To look at it in a positive way, something much better is in store.  
7. So what if we spend 10-12 hours at work, its our family and friends who keep us happy and smiling. So be in touch. Pick the phone and make that call. Show them that you are really happy to have them by your side.
8. No matter what, DO NOT snap at your loved ones. The way you have your bad days, even they do. If you have had a bad day, doesnt mean you need to get all impulsive and start snapping, making their days horrible too. On the other hand, if they snap at you, just realize that everyone has their bad days.
9. There’s no such thing as “will do it tomorrow” or “will do it later”. Erase these two words (Later & Tomorrow) from your dictionary. DO IT NOW.
10. We all go through hell and shit. Its alright. You will heal. Its just a matter of some time. Like its very beautifully said “Time heals nothing. It merely re-arranges our memory.”